Living With War-Related Illness and Injury

In many cases when soldiers return home, life does not get back to normal. Instead, we must learn to live with, and adapt to, a new normal.


Saturday, March 12, 2011

So You've Become a Caregiver? Read On

Nothing Is What I Thought It Would Be: A Reservist Wife’s Perspective

Articles from Military One Sourcer http://www.militaryonesource.com/ on dealing with becoming a caregiver.

When You Become Your Spouse's Caregiver

Becoming a Caregiver for Your Adult Son or Daughter
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Sean and I have been married for 15 years. Sean was injured in a mortar blast in Iraq in 2006. I am the mother of 3 children Jordan 20, Erin 19, and Keeley 17. A former first grade teacher, I now stay home as a caregiver to my husband.
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  • Courage After Fire
  • In An Instant: A Family's Journey of Love and Healing
  • Living With Brain Injury: A Guide for Families
  • Moving a Nation to Care: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and America's Returning Troops
  • Recovering From the War: A Guide for All Veterans, Family Members, Friends, and Therapists
  • The Only Thing Worth Dying For: How Eleven Green Berets Forged a New Afghanistan
  • What Was Asked of Us: An Oral History of the Iraq War by the Soldiers Who Fought It

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    7 years ago
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    7 years ago
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    PTSD coupled with Narcissism: How To Love Enough?
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    What is Hope?
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  • A Glimpse Into My Life
    Being Thankful
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  • Living with a Combat Injured Vet: When the War Comes Home
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    12 years ago
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    12 years ago
  • A Caregiver's Heart, Soul, and Stories
    A New Start
    12 years ago
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    12 years ago
  • 50 is the new 40
    Coming out of my "cave"
    12 years ago
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    Life : An Obstacle Course
    13 years ago
  • Loving a PTSD Survivor
    F-U PTSD!
    13 years ago
  • Lost in the VA Purgatory (with PTSD and TBI)
    Just Us
    13 years ago
  • Semper Strong
    PTSD a new frontier
    13 years ago
  • Secondary Demons
    can we get a live-in psychologist
    13 years ago
  • From Iraq to Nashville
    13 years ago
  • PTSD: A Love Story
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    14 years ago
  • Being the Wife of a U.S. Marine and Living with Endometriosis
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  • Michael Yon - Online Magazine
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  • Instructions Please
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  • one step at a time....
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